Saturday, April 23, 2011

ANOREXIC...I THINK NOT!!

(everything thrifted from head to toe except tee)
vintage straw boater hat, vintage stripe sailor skort, vintage nautical oxford shoes, gray semi circle tee, vintage "things" bag from Darine, F21 multi chain necklace, vintage cross necklace, vintage bangles and B.E. rings
At first I was going to start this post all heys and hi with sprinkles and unicorns on top but there's one issue I need to address. My weight! At first I was just going to ignore it but it's beginning to get pretty fuckin' ANNOYING! For the past 2 months I've been receiving nasty emails about being anorexic. Sorry sweeties but I'm 5'4, very petite and naturally skinny. I have been thin my WHOLE ENTIRE LIFE!! It really boils my butter cause I got picked on in middle and high school for being too skinny. You know the stereotype that black women should have voluptuous bodies with hips, ass and breasts?? Well I don't have any of that and I've learned to LOVE my 12 yr old boy body...thank you very much!! In all honesty have you ever seen an anorexic girl with an ass and thigh like this? Exactly!! I'm FUCKING HEALTHY!!
Also some people are just blessed with good genes. You should see my Mom...she's 5'9 and weighs 120lb after having 4 kids! And I know for a fact she's not anorexic. So in conclusion I will probably be skinny FOREVER, so get over it! Do your goddamn research of what anorexia really is before emailing me about it.
Before I go I just wanted to thank all my readers who support and love me for who I am! I will never stop saying and doing whatever the fuck I wanna do!  I'm sooooo happy you guys get that about me.
Kisses,
Virgin

58 comments:

original seed said...

what fucking jealous little nobheads you are CLEARLY not ano. you wouldnt be able to ride your bike or carry all your equipment.the reason i read your blog is because your YOU and i hate how people cant appreciate that yet they still have the time to mither.there should be a charity for people like this to donate to them finding a life so they can find themselves and stop picking into other people.

Ofelia said...

aw haters gonna hate.

love your skirt!


xx
Glass of Fashion

Lady Moriarty said...

Well things are the same all around the world ! Same for me since years and years. The best thing I've ever heard was "men hate girls like you, you're gonna stay alone forever", ha ha ! Well no. Don't listen to all of these bullshits, be confident, you're beautiful the way you are.

Kisses from Paris !

See U !

Ms-gg said...

Don't even bother with the negativity. Just brush your shoulders off girl and keep doing you. Love the look as always.

Ms-gg

Marina :) said...

Pictures are beautiful, and for the haters they are sooo...I don't have name for them!

Dominique W. said...

You are soooooo right! I have been picked on for the same reason as a child up til now cause I'm not the stereotypical body type of a black women. But I'm proud of my body no matter how I am now and what it turns out to be later. People just need to get their facts straight or just keep their mouths shut. Love this post my favorite by far!

Style Porn said...

Damn, people are too focused on weight. It gets boring, quite frankly, so let's move on to more important things: YOUR SHOES!! I love love love them, I want to get to know them, maybe take them on a date to dinner and a movie. We could do great things together, those shoes and I.

Miss M said...

wow, that some people have the nerve to assume something like that. I hate that typical comment "eat a sandwich". some of us are thin naturally, there is nothing wrong with that. you look great btw!

+Miss M+

Mandi said...

I get comments like that all the time, too. What people don't realize is that it's just as rude to tell a naturally skinny person they "need to eat", as it is to tell a fat person to go on a diet.

Tamia said...

Isn't it weird how whenever someone is thin there's an automatic assumption that they have an eating disorder? WTF? I think that says more about the difference between social expectations and biological norms than anything else.

Anyway, you look great and your style is dope. I focus on that!

Tamia
TheStyleSample

Jen said...

Fuck Em!

Your Gorgeous + Love The Outfit By The Way.

Jen
jjnoir.blogspot.com

April said...

That sucks. Ive been a reader for a couple of months and I never thought you were anorexic. I am surprised you're only 5'4", though! Even without tall shoes you look really tall.
Something that's always bothered me is how mean people are to girls who are truly anorexic. They're ill! Would anyone send nasty emails or hate to someone with cancer.

Well, nothing surprises me on the Internet anupymore so I'm sure some people would.

Keep on keepin on, girl. I love your photos. You have mad skills.

SafiyaMarie said...

Well whoever is saying your anorexic is a bloody fool, you have got the best damn shape to your legs and ass! You wouldnt get that on no anorexic girl. I love your top btw, gorgeous and slouchy - methinks i need one now :) x

Eda ♥ said...

Take no notice, envy comes to mind, you're blessed to have the beautiful body you have and by the way love your style ♥

*following your blog*

Eda ♥

Anonymous said...

I've been reading your blog for a while now and it has become one of my favorites. There is so much content on your blog, it's inspiring. People will say what they want, stay confident and cool - love you.

Céline K.G said...

hater gonna hate, you're beautiful, love the tee (:

xoxo, Céline
areyouincorrect.blogspot.com

Ashley said...

I love your bag!
And all the haters are just jealous! :)

M & Em said...

Oh my gosh. I can't even fathom how dumb people are! Jerks. You don't even look anorexic. Look at those thighs! Ow ow. ;)

xoxo
Em

Emmzz said...

Good on ya girl! Keep up with the blog! love it!

rouli said...

so cool!

Sophmog said...

Of course you're not too skinny; your legs are nice and shapely.

Ray said...

AMEN! I hate how people go on and on about how the fashion industry only advocates anorexia by using anorexic models and forcing girls to want to stop eating and what not---they need to realize that some of those models are naturally skinny, born that way, will always be that way, and are fricken healthy! My mom is EXACTLY LIKE YOURS. She is 5'9" and weighs exactly 120lbs after have three kids. I'm 5'0" (because my dad is short) and I weigh more than her. But hell no is she anorexic. But like you, she's been teased about it all her life, basically. I think people are just jealous and that they're brainwashed my mainstream media that only chants about anorexia and fashion as if they're one and the same. GAG. Your confidence and badass self is so inspiring to others, including me. I LOVE your attitude and your kickass blog, and you skinny beautiful ass self!

Kristen Leotsakou said...

omg you are a goddess! i mean unbelievable style! wow im so exited i found your blog! <3 <3 <3
don't fuss on those nasty comments, they're just fat jealous girls that act like being thin is actually a disease because what person can be healthy with ought eating 2 cakes, 3 turkeys and a buffalo in one day right?

Steffys Pros and Cons said...

whoever said that is awful! you have a healthy looking body, you are just petite! and i love your skirt it is so cutE
<3 steffy
Steffys Pros and Cons

Anah Jaliyah ツ said...

beautyful hat and you are beautiful

Jennifer Alyssa said...

Oh, the life of a skinny black girl! We have no ass, no breast and no hips so we must don't eat! Such bullshit! I'm in college now, and when I go into the school cafeteria the servers always give me more food than they're suppose to. It's really insulting actually. I hate how we're always ridiculed like it's not an insult. Like, they want us to hate our bodies or something. They need to get over the fact that we're skinny. No matter how much I eat..I'm not going over 120!!

thomessa said...

After reading this, those people who sent you those emails should feel pretty dumb. I never even considered that you were anorexic because I'm not going to automatically assume that someone who is skinny is anorexic, that's just ignorant. Stay awesome :)

Inside my head and wardrobe said...

you will always come across people who have something to say to try and make themselves feel better ! dont take them on ! your perfectly healthy looking ! love this look virgin you look great sweetie

http://myheadandwardrobe.blogspot.com/

Shulamit said...

your thighs are too big for you to be anorexic. tell them to go f*ck themselves.. :D

clementine said...

people seriously send you hate mail? thats ridiculous. i love reading your blog, seeing your outfits and reading your posts. and i love your language! fuckin-a. i think my favorite line ever in your blog was when your husband gave you a shirt and it got you so excited you almost slapped him! :)

Jes said...

Gorgeous girl, well said xx

Anonymous said...

Gah, some people are so ridiculous. When did it become okay to comment on another person's weight?!? I'm several pounds overweight, but if anyone were to comment on it that would be considered socially unacceptable. There's no difference between calling me fat and calling you anorexic - both are rude, uncalled for, untrue, and totally irrelevant! Your style is frickin' amazing, and that's what matters! xo
-Haley

Cs1993 said...

Wonderful pictures dear, i love the style and youre hair :o
Cs1993

grlfashionista said...

I love you outfit! And ur just perfect!

Caitlin said...

why is it ok to call girls out for being thin? you wouldn't call a girl out for being fat...
sigh! I guess women can't do anything right.
on that note you're seriously a role model for me, so fierce and stylin'.
I guess women can do some things right after all! :)

Jurie said...

Whatever, stupid haters. You look totally beautiful!! I'm super jealous!

Crystal Lee said...

Amen. you look fit & I love your shoes

ngawina said...

You know what? Those assholes are just jealous of you!!!!! You have a gorgeous body ( I'm a straight chick but can appreciate beauty) I have the same dilemma sometimes... I weigh about 120 and people think I starve myself. I'm a black girl with a lean body and love my figure just like you doll!! Ps you don't have a 12 year old boy body, you're in great sexy shape!! bottom line your body is siiiiick girl!

Isabel Spectre said...

I am so annoyed to hear that people have been emailing you about your weight! First of all why would you email someone you don't know who you think is anorexic and yell at them, it wouldn't help their issue. But back to you, I think you look great, obviously you have a skinny body type and that is just the way it is! You look healthy to me, so I don't know what those wackos were talking about! I am glad it is not getting you down Virgin!


http://iflyastarship.blogspot.com/

Catriona said...

It is so disrespectful of people to send such nasty emails about your weight!
You look like you are at a healthy weight so I have no idea what they have to complain about.
You are so beautiful and it's inspiring that you don't let their messages get to you :) Keep doing what you are doing! You have incredible style and wonderful photographs <3

Catriona, xx
http://theunwiseowl.blogspot.com

Emina said...

some people are just jealous.. you look perfect!

Karima said...

soo Eclectic! love it

Machine Darine said...

Let the haters hate, whenever you're doing well there is always some wet blanket loser who wants to rain on your parade. Remember the better you are doing at life the more people are trying to knock you down because they're life is just that lame. You're killing it mama, even all the way from Texas! And I know for a FACT that you are not anorexic because we have eaten many many fat ass meals together. I love you babe can't wait to see you this summer!!!!!!!!!!

Love youz
MachineDarine

Opposite lipstick said...

So pretty!




http://oppositelipstick.blogspot.com/

LINDHO said...

wft? haha jealous much !
i think you are beautiful, and yes you are skinny but NOT in anorexic way!
i love your outfit as always!!!
YOU ARE SO VERY VERY BEAUTIFUL!

lauraa said...

WTF? Mental. You are clearly in great shape, toned as hell. Jealousy in its finest form clearly.
I love that skirt on you- looks like a cheerleaders!
xxx

Rachel said...

Wow, those emails must be really horrible after a while. :o
You look great, and so do your outfits!

Dressingfiyah said...

You look so gorgeous, and I love your look, as ususal !!!

http://dressingfiyah.blogspot.com

Hal said...

Ily, everything is amazing.

HALCOHOLIC.com

Екатерина said...

Супер фотографии!=)

http://mandy1995.blogspot.com/

esther said...

one word.

jealously


esther xx
knit-and-pearl.blogspot.com

Merci pour le venin said...

lol, fuck them. your body is to die for, skinny but not too skinny. you are beautiful.

Ju' said...

love your shoes !! ;)

maphi said...

its only bored internet trols who do silly things like that , im 5ft3 and have a massive but , however some people still call me "too skinny" or anorexic , bored ppl talk , i say let them talk whilst you move forward :) xoxo

Chomy said...

have i told u lately that i love u?
first off all, the nerve of ppl to actually email u about shit they don't like. i don't get this whole blog culture, ppl really think you owe them something just because they read a blog. my motto is simple, if u don't like what u see piss off, don't write a nasty email about it. if u r not too skinny , u r too something, u can't win... some ppl will always find something about others to complain about, instead of showing love when due, they try to corrupt it with negative energy! if some ppl actually spent less time inboxing ppl they hardly know and invest that time in their own lives, things will be wayyyy better.

stay you! u don't owe anyone an explanation for anything.

much love~

summer said...

you're 5'4 you look so much taller! and i agree with everyone else!

Romy said...

People are way too focussed on weight! God damn it, there are many different shapes, heights and sizes in the world, and that's great! How boring life would be, if we all looked the same!
Anyway, you look lovely and your attitude and attire makes it absolutely obvious that you do not have a serious illness (which anorexia is! People keep on forgetting that anorexia is a life-threatening illness!). You seem to be so confident and somehow self-settled, stay as you are! Which is: Fuckin' terrific!

Anonymous said...

Oh my goodness you are gorgeous! Can I have your shoes? lol

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